Overcoming grief by encouraging yourself in the word
A Tribute to my dear Husband and Friend
July 14, 2022
Joy in the midst of mourning
July 28, 2022Overcoming grief by encouraging yourself in the word is my take home from the blow I received when my husband died. Looking back, the first emotion to set in was shock. I was shocked that it had happened because no matter what they tell you about death. Death is sudden and it catches you completely unawares. Shock has lasted longer than I expected. I still find it hard to wrap my mind around the fact that my husband is gone. And I won’t see him again this side of heaven. I can truthfully say that it has tested my faith. My mustard seed faith has been howled at by this storm. There are three things I have had to wrestle with. 1) Is God still seated on His throne, 2) Does God really love me and 3)Where do I go from here?
Is God still seated on His throne?
My favourite slogan when life throws curveballs at me or people close to me is, God is still seated on His throne. In overcoming grief my all encompassing need is the reassurance that my heavenly Father is Sovereign. That He who never sleeps nor slumbers has not been taken by surprise at the events that are unfolding in my life. He knew about them before even time began. He has declared in His word that His plans for you are good, not to harm you but to give you a hope and a future. Every morning when I wake up I choose to believe that God is good. I choose to believe that He is in control and has made a way out of this quagmire.
Does God really love me?
When something horrible happens to us, our first instinct is to think we are disadvantaged and feeling unloved is one of them. The truth of the matter is I have lost someone who loved me and who I loved dearly. As a believer I choose to remember that I am no longer just a carnal person who operates only through my senses but I am a spiritual being who even though I don’t perceive things in the physical I believe things in the spiritual. The word of God is the mirror that tells me what I have. And the word of God is alive and active and when I believe what it says I have what it says. God is love, He demonstrates His love for us that while we were still sinners Christ died for us.
Where do I go from here?
Tough question because I never envisioned myself parenting without Edward. We had so many dreams and plans that we won’t get to figure out together. That was an essential part of the fun, planning these mini adventures. Part of my identity was being a wife. I loved being a wife with all its intricacies, challenges, joys and opportunities for growth. I will miss being married to Edward. However, that is only one dimension of me and it comes second to being the beloved daughter of the most High God. My identity is found solely in Him. All I have to do is be still and I will hear where my next journey takes me.
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Very profound self reflection my dear sister Anna. God is still seated on his throne and is in control. Your faith, strength and grace a a daily source of inspiration.
Anna I really admire your attitude… God is on the throne, He still loves you and He knows the plans He has for you.
God is still on the throne and has good plans for you, Maryanne and Dave.
So beautifully written Anna. Even in your grief, you have perspective of what really matters. Our relationship with our Father in Heaven and the work which is still unfinished. Reminds me of the scripture in Isaiah 6:8 that says here I am send me.
I pray our Heavenly Father guides you and lights your path so bright, you wont have any doubts as to where you are going 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Can’t wait for the next blog.
That is who you are..
A child of the most High God. Even when you have as many questions.
That’s the way. Keep holding fast to his word and the Lord will always be with you in every step.
Wow, I love that spirit.
Indeed, you are the daughter of the Most High and because He is still on the throne, He will direct your steps and lead you through this journey of life.
May His grace and peace reign in your heart❤
Indeed, you are the daughter of the Most High and because He is still on the throne, He will direct your steps and lead you through this journey of life.
May His grace and peace reign in your heart❤
Anna, this is very thought provoking and well balanced. Keep the faith and the Lord will continue to guide you. Much love x
God is still seated on his throne and he is watching over you. Concentrate on the creator and fix your eyes on Jesus. He is a faithful God
Take each day, one day at a time.
God is still on the throne and has good plane for you
He indeed is still sovereign and will never leave you. May He continue being most gracious to you.
How profound, encouraging and reassuring! Thank you so much for sharing your journey and reminding me of the One who is the grand Architect of our lives… the One who is the Way, the Truth and the Life.
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